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Sexual anatomy refers to both the external sexual organs, like the vulva and penis, and the internal organs involved in reproduction, such as the uterus and seminal vesicle. We categorize anatomy as either female or male, but not the person. A person's anatomy doesn't determine their gender. Based on sexual anatomy, a person is assigned a sex at birth—female or male. This is the case even if a person's sexual anatomy does not present as male or female—which is called intersex. Again, this doesn't determine a person's gender.

Gender is shaped by social and cultural norms and expected behaviors. A person's gender identity—the way they see themselves—as female, male, both, or neither—does not always match their biological sex. A person expresses their gender in many ways, such as their name, pronouns, dress, hairstyle, and more. When we talk about sexual anatomy, we talk about it in a binary way—male and female. But this refers to biological sex, not gender identity or expression.

Sexuality Discovering one's sexuality can and should be liberating, exciting, and a positive experience. However, an individual's sexuality can also put them at risk of discrimination and/or harassment. Homophobia, stigma, and discrimination can be especially hard for those who identify as LGBTQIA+. These negative attitudes also increase their chance of experiencing harassment, isolation from family and community, and even violence. Violence can include behaviors such as bullying, teasing, harassment, physical assault, and suicide-related behaviors. (CDC) We all play a role in helping to create policies, practices, and spaces that support an individual's free and safe expression of their sexuality.

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Remember, sexual health is about informed choices, safety, and respectful experiences.

The Office of Sexual Health and Epidemiology offers resources to find tips on how to talk with your health care provider; speak openly with your sexual partner(s), and explore important sexual health topics which include: Prevention, Pleasure and Power, Knowing Yourself, Testing, Consent, Talking to providers and partners, information on sexually transmitted infections and Partner Services.

Questions? Contact us at stdc@health.ny.gov